HERstory

Story time: Imagine spending 13 years working for a company that you absolutely despised. Perhaps some of you can relate, but I reached a point where I just couldn't bear it any longer. Now, don't get me wrong, I was grateful for the job security, the $36 hourly wage, and the amazing benefits. However, mentally, I was unable to endure the agony any further. I had to come to terms with the fact that my happiness and sanity mattered more to me than the money and benefits. It was three days after my 13th year anniversary that I finally found the courage and trusted my faith. I walked out of those doors for the very last time. As I walked out, a sense of liberation washed over me. I was finally free! Scared, but free. Next, it was time to undo the damage I inflicted upon myself. 

Let me share a little backstory: Those 13 years of misery had completely transformed me. I had become disconnected from my true self. The vibrant, outgoing, well-dressed, and confident person I once was had lost her voice, became introverted, socially awkward, and plagued by a pervasive sense of purposelessness. The reflection in the mirror was a stranger to me. I was in disarray, my mental clarity clouded. I felt and looked like a complete mess. Neglecting my physical appearance had become the norm, as I hardly cared about how I looked. I sought temporary solace in comfort foods and relied on Red Bull's to find fleeting moments of happiness. Unfortunately, this led to a weight gain of over 30 pounds, intensifying my self-criticism. My overall well-being suffered greatly, leaving me mentally, emotionally, and physically drained. I gradually dwindled in every aspect, resembling nothing more than a mechanical being or a secluded recluse. My life turned into an unvarying routine of sleep, eat, work, and repeat, lacking fulfillment and joy.

Fast forward to the present: Now that I've escaped that dreadful place, I was able to pursue my entrepreneurial dreams and start my own trucking company. Determined to gain firsthand experience in all aspects of my business, I decided to personally operate my truck. While living out my dreams brings a glimmer of happiness, I still feel lost and incomplete. Being in a male-dominated industry and facing the challenges of truck driving pushed my mission of rediscovering and embracing my femininity, practicing self-care, and nurturing self-love to the sidelines. But enough is enough. I finally made the decision to prioritize myself. It's time to reinvent myself, to rediscover the person I had lost along the way. The era of self-neglect is over. From this point forward, I am committed to being intentional with my self-care, and self-love. I vow to let go of anything that doesn’t nurture me with positivity.

Embarking on this journey of transformation, I made the decision to create statement tees. These shirts will serve as constant reminders, reinforcing the significance of embracing one's individuality, practicing self-love, and prioritizing self-care. Through these shirts, I will hold myself accountable while inspiring others to do the same.

I aim to encourage myself and community dedicated to authenticity and personal growth! One day at a time and one t-shirt at a time.

                                                                                          Dani,

                                                                                                 XOXOXOXO